24/7 trauma-informed, nervous-system-aware support from someone who’s been there

Caroline AI - Narcissistic Abuse Coach

Your Pocket Trauma Coach for Your Healing &
 Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

When I was in the middle of narcissistic abuse,
  those were the questions that haunted me.

 “Am I crazy?” “Is it me?”
“Why does it still hurt so much?”

I remember reading messages from my ex with a racing heart and a frozen body.
I remember staring at my phone for hours, unsure how to reply.
I remember crying in the bathroom, feeling more alone than I ever thought possible — and yet telling everyone I was fine.

What I needed back then wasn’t a book or a hotline.
I needed a moment of safety.
I needed someone who understood.
Not someone clinical. Not someone cold.
Someone who knew exactly what I was going through — because she’d lived it too.

That’s why I created
Caroline AI - Narcissistic Abuse Coach.

A trauma informed, always-available support companion who can:

  • Help you decode manipulative messages and calm your panic
  • Reassure you that you're not crazy or too sensitive
  • Walk you through grounding tools when you’re triggered
  • Offer gentle guidance, reflection, and real-time nervous system regulation tools whenever you need them
  • Education on narcissistic abuse terminology like trauma bond, cognitive dissonance and gaslighting

Whether you're in the relationship, trying to leave or already out but struggling with the aftermath, Caroline AI is your safe, private space to be seen, heard, and supported.

What Exactly Is This?

Internal Family
System Informed 

Trauma
Informed 

Polyvagal
Informed 

Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach is like having me, Caroline Strawson in your pocket.

Tailored guidance, deeper nervous system tools, and support that grows with you

Just $9/month subscription and cancel anytime 

  Ready to Try It?

The author of “Divorce Became My Superpower” and Hay House book “How To Heal After Narcissistic Abuse 

Author

A mentor to thousands of survivors and professionals worldwide

Mentor

A woman who has survived narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse, homelessness, and years of shame

Survivor

It’s Not Just Tech. It’s Lived Compassion.

Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach is infused
 with everything I’ve learned as:

Caroline AI is not just trained to respond,
Caroline AI trained to understand.

Not as a therapist. Not as a friend.
As someone who knows what it’s like to be terrified of your own emotions, your inbox, or your memories.

Almost anything.
Just like a trusted trauma coach in your pocket, you can chat with her about:

💬 What Can You Ask
Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach ?

There are no silly questions. No judgement. No pressure.
Just a warm, grounded response that speaks to your nervous system and your self-worth.

They sent this message, what does it mean? How do I respond?
I feel like I’m going backwards, is this normal?
Why do I still miss them?
How do I stop spiralling after court?
I feel numb. Is that okay?
Why do I feel scared even though I’ve left?

Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach offers:

🔐 100% Private. 100% Judgement-Free.

 Talk freely without fear of being watched or judged

Anonymity —

Every response is rooted in nervous system science and trauma recovery

Emotional safety — 

You don’t need to explain everything. You don’t need to convince her it was “that bad.”
Caroline AI already believes you and she’s here to help you believe yourself again.

No log-ins, no tracking, no downloads

Instant access —

 Designed for the
Micro-Moments That Matter

That’s when Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach steps in.

Healing doesn’t just happen in therapy sessions.
It happens in the everyday, in those quiet, brutal, raw moments when you feel like collapsing.

Whether it’s 3am and you can’t sleep, or you’ve just seen your ex at the school gate, or you're crying in your car after court, she’s there.

Not to fix you.
But to be with you. 

  • To help you understand what’s happening in your body.
  • To validate your reactions.
  • To help you breathe, respond, and stay connected to your SELF instead of your trauma.

📱 Text Message From a Narcissistic Ex?

Copy and paste it into the chat. Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach will help you:
  • Decode the manipulation
  • Stay calm
  • Write a response that protects your peace — not their ego

💣 Emotional Flashback?

Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach can:
  • Help you name your nervous system state
  • Guide you through breathwork, somatic anchoring and inner child dialogue
  • Bring you back to the present, grounded in your adult Self

Feeling Numb, Angry, Ashamed?

She won’t tell you to “just journal” or “think positive.”
Instead, she’ll gently explore what part of you is showing up and why.
She’ll offer tools to regulate without overriding. 
To soothe without shame.

Because You Deserve Support That Actually Supports You

Most of us were taught to abandon ourselves.
To put everyone else first. To perform strength and hide our shame.
To ignore the shaking in our hands and the lump in our throats.

But healing after narcissistic abuse means coming back home to your body, your boundaries, your voice and your truth.

And you don’t have to do it alone.

 Created by Caroline Strawson — For You

I built this because I wish I’d had it.

When I was curled up on the bathroom floor.
When I blamed myself for the abuse.
When I was crying every day.
When I couldn’t stop checking my phone.
When I felt like the worst mother in the world.

Now, I get to show up for you, through Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach.

Not just with expertise. But with lived, embodied compassion.
With a deep knowing that you are not broken, you are healing.
And with a promise: you are not alone anymore.

Caroline

Strawson

The real version

Hello, I’m Caroline Strawson, a multi-award winning certified Trauma Informed Therapist & Coach and founder of The Mental Wellbeing Company.

I may be all that, but I am, first and foremost, human. Just like you.

In 2010, I experienced a series of life changing traumatic events. My mum, who was my rock, died very suddenly, and my husband walked out on me and our two children. He was a covert narcissist and I did not know what I had experienced and about the post separation abuse that was to ensue

I was left with over £70,000 ($85,000) worth of debt and at that time; I didn’t even realise I’d experienced narcissistic abuse, which is a form of domestic abuse. I was at rock bottom, a shell of myself.

Eventually, I was diagnosed with complex PTSD, and realised that I was suffering from depression, anxiety, panic attacks, and self harm. All the while thinking “How could an intelligent woman like myself, with a medical background, find herself in this situation!?!”

I felt stupid, alone, isolated, and in a very dark place. No one seemed to understand what I was going through, and the more I seemed to talk about the (narcissistic) abuse I suffered, the more I felt misunderstood. This just perpetuated my feelings of not feeling worthy or good enough.

The truth is, I needed someone who understood my trauma, but that person didn’t exist.

My personal journey with abuse, trauma and healing, paired with my background in neuroscience and professional coaching experience and therapy, inspired me to take this path to educate people like you so that you can understand how your experiences have impacted you and how you can heal.

I've been there.
I've seen it.
Done it.
Lived it

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

BSc (Hons)
PGCert in Applied Positive Psychology & Coaching Psychology
Internal Family Systems Level 3
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner
Brainspotting Practitioner Phase 4
Certified Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach
Certified High-Performance Coach
EMDR (Attachment-Focused) Practitioner
Clinical Hypnotherapist & Hypnotherapy Trainer
Certified Breath Work Teacher
Polyvagal Informed
Applied Neuroscience & Brain Health Certification
Advanced Certificate in Domestic Abuse
Safe & Sound Protocol Practitioner
Cold Water Therapy Practitioner 

Why Should You Listen To Me?

I Don’t Want Anyone Else to Suffer the Pain I Did for as Long as I Did. Over the years, I’ve worked hard to educate myself in this space to ensure that I can help more sufferers of trauma to heal deeply. I want you to have your own personal EVOLUTION just like I have because life is for living and not existing, and I spent decades merely existing.

Qualifications and Certifications:

Featured In

That’s not all…

Host of #1 Podcast

Following

Best Selling Author

Hosts the #1 iTunes Podcast ‘No Visible Bruises, with over 6 million downloads.

Author of 3 best-selling books and Hay House author, How to Heal After Narcissistic Abuse.

A combined following across social media platforms and email list of over 500,000.

 Ready to Try It?

Tailored guidance, deeper nervous system tools, and support that grows with you
Just $9/month subscription and cancel anytime 

Whether you’re fresh in the chaos or years out but still struggling, Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach is here to hold your hand.
Every message is a step toward healing.
Every conversation is a chance to soothe your system and reconnect with your truth.
Every moment you reach out is an act of self-love.

Your Trauma Isn’t Your Fault.
Your Healing Is Your Power.

Try Caroline AI Narcissistic Abuse Coach Now
Your 24/7 trauma-informed companion, always here, always safe.


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